A memorable event

Bringing your baby home for the first time is an important and memorable event. But your other children may not see it that way. It's natural for siblings to be jealous so don't expect the day to go perfectly. If your kids can get through the event without asking you to "send the baby back", you've done a great job. Here are a few tips to help smooth the process.

Hugs for everyone

When you come through the door, ask someone to hold the baby for you. This will leave your arms free to gather your older children up in a big hug. After all, it may have been a few days since they've seen you and they'll be hungry for your attention. After letting them know that Mommy still loves them as much as ever, you can return your attention to the new arrival.

Mommy's little helpers

Chances are your kids will be fascinated with the baby, but they may also feel a little threatened. By asking them for their help in taking care of their sibling they'll be sharing your attention, not fighting for it. For example, when you settle down to feed, ask them to adjust your pillow or footstool. At changing time, they can get a clean diaper. And don't forget to find special one-on-one time with them. Even if you're exhausted, snuggle up for a few minutes and talk about the terrific adventures in store for them with their new brother or sister. These will be moments well invested for everyone.